I don't think romantic attention and romantic tension are necessarily the same thing. It's common and OK to not feel romantic. Especially for those of us who grew up with parents who did not regularly demonstrate love, kindness, playfulness, and romance with each other. What we don't experience in childhood we usually can't relate to when we grow up.
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This is so true...After sex, I always tell my Wife: "I'll be home in an hour!"